Starvation, and the fact that my electricity was off, for 12 hours yesterday. Meant I had to get some yummy exciting sexy shopping, How can I make going to the Co-op sound exciting and attractive? It's not far, but I felt 100% better for the effort.
I was sent yesterday, a fab pic of a Lurcher, lying across it's owner who was riding a Recumbent Cycle :) It made me smile. Not easy at the moment. Sorry to be a miserable Bas*
At the moment, my plan is to Cycle, to the big Tesco tomorrow, with my little boy, on his new Scooter (on the Pavement), because he knows the Cycle paths down there, and wants to look after his Mum. And besides, it's along time since I've been on an adventure with him.x
You may need to have a love-lust debate with yourself. It may help to consider that you can have numerous gentlemen friends, with whom you can go out socially, and have a cuddle with but only one boy friend with whom you embrace.
ReplyDeleteSeems to work as you can tell everyone about who your gentlemen friends are without any implied preferences not any cause for rivalry since you are not endorsing their suites. Likewise you can be a lady friend for many gentlemen who would be in a tricky position, should you adopt the title girl friend.
As with that Naval toast "To wives and girlfriends, may they never meet".....
Good luck with the Tesco run tomorrow - taking the trailer? That's well near half way in to the town, and there's a back lane down by the railway and the Sheaf that wiggles its way through for several sections of the route.
BTW I can empathise with folk feeling mighty low at this time of year - A pretty thankless Christmas Eve from the kids, went to riding school special morning of games, and had a Christmas meal. Gave them Christmas cards and presents. In return a mumbled Happy Christmas, no cards, and no thank you for the presents.
ReplyDeleteRailways seem to be having the worst year for many a time for people stepping out in front of trains. As a community we seem to be losing that ability to spot those amongst us who need to unburden themselves and store up that angst until it tips up their thinking. It is good that you seem to have that ability to be a listener as much as you manage to gabble away when the mood takes you. Give that friend a good cuddle for 2012
Ahhh, a really nice reply Dave, and Thank you. I needed a bit of recognition I think, that at the moment, I am s'ones rock. And although it's making me miserable. I bet I aint feeling half as bad as he is.
ReplyDeleteWe've spent many years tho, never being more than friends, but now that line between frindship and lover has been crosserd it's very hard to return. We've tried.
I know the feeling some of my best support over the past while has come from people who have been girl friends and have now settled down with other folk.
ReplyDeletePart of the detail is an ability not to keep a torch burning but recognise that you do know that person to their inner core, and as I've felt rather like a Mr Rigby, know just how to handle some of the very pretty and personable young ladies who have rented flats over the years. Cheeky banter (especially from the lady who managed to break 2 beds over the years) and an ear to listen to, that knows where the cut off point comes. It is very hard when you may be aching for the very nice feeling of having another body to nuzzle up to but the world has a clever way of providing the rewards in other ways.
Just off to scribble down notes for the agony column
Unfortunatly this guy, had been married for 12 years. And probably quite happily, but then he met me..... I am the loser here, fortunately his wife will never know. And he's like a dog with a bone-r!!!
ReplyDeleteIn 2012, just try (if you haven't already) giving the girls a little bit of money. For Mothers Day, so they can buy Mum s'thing, and b'days and Christmas. And see if the gestures recipicated. And if it's not, it's not the girls fault, because they don't have the means.
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In 2012, just try (if you haven't already) giving the girls a little bit of money. For Mothers Day, so they can buy Mum s'thing, and b'days and Christmas. And see if the gestures recipicated. And if it's not, it's not the girls fault, because they don't have the means.
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